Complicated Reality

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Reality is Complicated, I'm trying to help. I want to make internet that doesn't hurt. This is a call for the creators, the thinkers, the dreamers, and curious. Come as you are, share as you can, be loved. Experimental chat community.

It shouldn't hurt to hang out with friends.

I'm tired of having a gut full of anxiety when I check in on my friends on certain Fairly Big social sites. Popularity algorithms make sure the space between us is full of things designed to rile us up, and the dopamine-driven feedback loop is harmful in many subtle ways. The faint trickles of genuine friendship I get there leave me vulnerable to an unending feed of manipulation, deception, and anger. It's not healthy for me, and it's time to break that addiction.

I'm certain we can do better.

I've been participating in web communities for over 20 years and spent a decade developing video games. I've learned a lot about motivation and the science of social play, and I think with there's a way to make a community space that feels good to hang out in. I'm building experimental chat channels designed to explore alternate ways of communicating and hope to attract an adventurous population to see how far we can go.

We're going to be silly.

There's no better way to bond than over a smile. Playful channels, server events, and a focus on whimsical joy makes the Complicated Reality server a place to get your grin back.

We're going to be sincere.

There's nothing in the world that brings me greater joy than helping someone, and I would love little more than to build a community that does that too. Whether you're having a hard time being stuck at home, you need help learning a tough subject, you want advice on life, or you just need some technical troubleshooting, come ask our network of wise and generous minds.

We're going to be strange.

I can handle your weird, and in fact, I cherish it. This community is unashamedly sex-positive, without being pornographic. I encourage neurodiversity and strive to make a comfortable space for every kind of mind. This community is welcoming to all gender and sexual identities, inviting to all races and nationalities, and open to members of all peaceful religions and philosophies.

Creators, share with pride!

You can share your stuff here. Whether you're an artist, a musician, a podcaster, a dancer, a writer, or any other kind of creator, I want to see your stuff. Creators of all skill levels can share without shame in a positive, encouraging atmosphere. Join my network of independent creators as I teach a community how to buy direct and support art more holistically.

Free Hugs

Are you missing out on hugs right now? Me too. Come get yours!

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